so hypothetically let's say you have this friend you tell friend a in secrecy about some possible Feelings With a Capital F you may or may not have friend a has a friend, friend b who is kind of a meddler and wheedled it out of you with emotional trauma (sort of)
friend b is threatening this hypothetical you in a very freudian way and friend a is threatening this hypothetical person you have feelings for in a way that's just vague enough for said hypothetical person to understand
[ and that is the sound of puzzle pieces falling into place... ]
hypothetically, I would try and figure out if my possible feelings are really possible or not really possible and I'd tell friend a that they really shouldn't have said anything, but if it helped me realize my possible or not possible feelings I wouldn't be all that mad friend b is a little tougher but I guess that would depend on how I felt about friend b as a friend and if the sort of emotional trauma was me actually being traumatized or just me feeling awkward about possible feelings
and then, hypothetically I would probably go to the person and tell them myself because hypothetically whispering about possible feelings can get really really complicated and when it comes to these maybe not even real feelings for this hypothetical person I wouldn't want things to be complicated because I wasn't sure enough to act on it hypothetically
said hypothetical feelings are complicated enough and i'm not planning on acting on said hypothetical feelings anytime soon considering A) i don't want to get rejected/punched/laughed at like it usually goes and B) it's just not right idk you know what happened with her (at least recently but also in the past and in the past past)
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there are also feelings that used to be with a capital F for another person that i don't really think are with a capital f anymore non hypothetically this shit is complicated
all I'm saying is that maybe you have these feelings or maybe you don't but while I might not be the best person to ask about this seeing as I don't even know this possible person
but unless you do act on it you're never going to know if A) will even happen or if B) will ever come along she was crazy but I don't know about the past or the past past and I'm a little curious as to how much you know but stiles hypothetical feelings or no you're going to have to face them at some point now might not be the perfect time but no time is ever really going to be perfect for hypothetical situations anyway
as for your non capital F feelings for another person I wouldn't worry about those she's probably not coming back anyway and even if she does you shouldn't be waiting for that to happen to keep living your life
nah i'm kinda glad i asked you you give pretty good advice (hypothetically ;) )
i know a lot my dad's the sheriff ok i have the deadly combination of unending curiosity and access to private files haha i don't know what's going to happen and that freaks me out a little bit, man it's easier just to bottle it and pretend it doesn't exist in this case because i don't think this is gonna be quite like with lydia
what if she does, though? i've been waiting for her my whole life it's like just a lot to deal with at once i guess i think i'm ok i think i'm moving on from it it's like a breakup of a relationship i never had
but you do realize that the fact you looked this up beforehand, remembered it, whatever kind of means that you care? or cared. before coming here. but the thing is none of us know what's going to happen it's easier to bottle it up and hide away from it sure but you're never going to get anything out of that you're going to sit around for your whole life waiting for someone else
then you'll deal with it when that happens it's not like she's going to hate you for giving up a crush we all have crushes, we all have a lot of crushes you moving on doesn't have to be completely separate from you pursuing someone else you don't even have to move if you don't want to it's whatever makes you happier when it comes down to it not things or feelings or titles, it's whatever you want to do you just asked me for my opinion, so I gave it to you
so i think you should start a coup and overthrow ms morrell you'd make a 10x better guidance counselor haha
...you're more right than you know i think jesus this is really freakin bad allison can you teach me to like people who aren't way out of my league and able to kill me with their pinky finger
i have been doing that most of my life to be honest it's a hard habit to break but i'll try. just.....soon, i guess eventually someday i don't really know what's gonna make me happy yet right now it's pretending i didn't just have like five mortifying conversations and maybe barricading myself in the game room for a day or two until everyone forgets
are you kidding? I'd make an awful guidance counselor I'd get so sick of all the kids asking me for help :p
if you say so but it's not that bad listen if you're worried about that I can't give you like, super strength or anything but I could train you? just to hold up on your own? I am going to have to disagree about the league bit because that's wrong but I can help so that it's at least their pointer finger, or maybe middle
that's the whole point to habits, that they're hard to break you've trained your body not to break them the only thing you can do is make the choice to do it and then work at it every day whenever you're ready
above all though that's what you have to figure out what makes you happy, what it is you want to do sticking to old crushes because they're easy or nothing at all because that's simple is going to leave you worse off than before I promise you're going to have to wait until tomorrow for the game room, though I kind of just asked cora if she wanted to watch a movie? but if it helps I'll distract scott and isaac for the next couple of days so you can ice cream and rom com
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are you really asking me that
[ and this has less to do with his apparent bickerflirting and more to do with her own dating life. ]
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see this is why you're my favorite
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what's going on?
not that I don't mind being your favorite :)
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so how is your werewolf dating game going anyway
:)
[ #smoothest ]
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if you'd like
[ that is the most ominous statement ever, just so you know. can you feel the dun dun duns. ]
nice try but
not gonna happen
:)
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which means this will be out in about ten minutes
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hypothetically
let's say you have this friend
you tell friend a in secrecy about some possible Feelings With a Capital F you may or may not have
friend a has a friend, friend b
who is kind of a meddler and wheedled it out of you with emotional trauma (sort of)
friend b is threatening this hypothetical you in a very freudian way and friend a is threatening this hypothetical person you have feelings for in a way that's just vague enough for said hypothetical person to understand
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hypothetically, I would try and figure out if my possible feelings are really possible or not really possible
and I'd tell friend a that they really shouldn't have said anything, but if it helped me realize my possible or not possible feelings
I wouldn't be all that mad
friend b is a little tougher but I guess that would depend on how I felt about friend b as a friend
and if the sort of emotional trauma was me actually being traumatized or just me feeling awkward about possible feelings
and then, hypothetically
I would probably go to the person and tell them myself
because hypothetically whispering about possible feelings can get really really complicated
and when it comes to these maybe not even real feelings for this hypothetical person
I wouldn't want things to be complicated because I wasn't sure enough to act on it
hypothetically
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and i'm not planning on acting on said hypothetical feelings anytime soon
considering A) i don't want to get rejected/punched/laughed at like it usually goes
and B) it's just
not right
idk
you know what happened with her
(at least recently but also in the past
and in the past past)
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there are also feelings that used to be with a capital F for another person that i don't really think are with a capital f anymore
non hypothetically this shit is complicated
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and I also hypothetically think you might be making a bigger deal out of this than it needs to be
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but while I might not be the best person to ask about this
seeing as I don't even know this possible person
but unless you do act on it you're never going to know if A) will even happen or if B) will ever come along
she was crazy
but I don't know about the past or the past past and I'm a little curious as to how much you know
but stiles
hypothetical feelings or no you're going to have to face them at some point
now might not be the perfect time
but no time is ever really going to be perfect for hypothetical situations anyway
as for your non capital F feelings for another person
I wouldn't worry about those
she's probably not coming back anyway
and even if she does you shouldn't be waiting for that to happen to keep living your life
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kinda glad i asked you
you give pretty good advice
(hypothetically ;) )
i know a lot my dad's the sheriff ok
i have the deadly combination of unending curiosity and access to private files haha
i don't know what's going to happen and that freaks me out a little bit, man
it's easier just to bottle it and pretend it doesn't exist in this case
because i don't think this is gonna be quite like with lydia
what if she does, though?
i've been waiting for her my whole life
it's like
just a lot to deal with at once i guess
i think i'm ok
i think i'm moving on from it
it's like a breakup of a relationship i never had
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but you do realize that the fact you looked this up beforehand, remembered it, whatever
kind of means that you care? or cared. before coming here.
but the thing is
none of us know what's going to happen
it's easier to bottle it up and hide away from it sure
but you're never going to get anything out of that
you're going to sit around for your whole life waiting for someone else
then you'll deal with it when that happens
it's not like she's going to hate you for giving up a crush
we all have crushes, we all have a lot of crushes
you moving on doesn't have to be completely separate from you pursuing someone else
you don't even have to move if you don't want to
it's whatever makes you happier when it comes down to it
not things or feelings or titles, it's whatever you want to do
you just asked me for my opinion, so I gave it to you
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so do what you want to do :)
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and overthrow ms morrell
you'd make a 10x better guidance counselor haha
...you're more right than you know i think
jesus
this is really freakin bad
allison can you teach me to like people who aren't way out of my league and able to kill me with their pinky finger
i have been doing that most of my life to be honest
it's a hard habit to break
but
i'll try.
just.....soon, i guess
eventually
someday
i don't really know what's gonna make me happy yet
right now it's pretending i didn't just have like
five mortifying conversations
and maybe barricading myself in the game room for a day or two until everyone forgets
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hey man we've been through worse right
i think i actually prefer peter/jackson/deucalion to this
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I'd make an awful guidance counselor
I'd get so sick of all the kids asking me for help :p
if you say so
but it's not that bad
listen
if you're worried about that
I can't give you like, super strength or anything
but I could train you? just to hold up on your own?
I am going to have to disagree about the league bit because that's wrong
but I can help so that it's at least their pointer finger, or maybe middle
that's the whole point to habits, that they're hard to break
you've trained your body not to break them
the only thing you can do is make the choice to do it and then work at it every day
whenever you're ready
above all though that's what you have to figure out
what makes you happy, what it is you want to do
sticking to old crushes because they're easy or nothing at all because that's simple is going to leave you worse off than before
I promise
you're going to have to wait until tomorrow for the game room, though
I kind of just asked cora if she wanted to watch a movie?
but if it helps I'll distract scott and isaac for the next couple of days so you can ice cream and rom com
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I keep imagining one of them will show up during one of these events
really not helpful when it comes to sleeping at night